This is a prequel to the longer post about our last and final remodel. Look, our house wasn't that bad. Friends and family would come to visit and more or less say the same things: "Your place has such nice energy!" "Everything feels so calm..." "There are good vibes in this house." This, of course,… Continue reading A summary of our first home projects
Category: Lifestyle
Ode to the wheelbarrow
The wheelbarrow cleverly combines two ancient technologies, the wheel and the lever, into a very useful device. Elegant and efficient, it's a beauty to behold. I mean really, look at this thing. The leverage you get comes from the long handles. Keeping the load near the fulcrum allows you to lift the load off the… Continue reading Ode to the wheelbarrow
Above-average mediocrity
I started writing this a while ago and am publishing it now even though I don't feel this anymore. Nonetheless, I edited and finished it because I think the vibe is interesting and might be helpful to another fellow "bottom of the top 1%"-er. So here we go. I'm going to chip off a piece… Continue reading Above-average mediocrity
My unannounced and inconsequential break from social media
I took about four months off of regularly reading and somewhat regularly posting to social media. I took Facebook off my phone entirely and removed all Facebook email notifications a while ago. LinkedIn followed. Then Twitter. With each step away from the incessant drone of snippets and soundbites my overall well-being improved. It felt like… Continue reading My unannounced and inconsequential break from social media
A new routine
By Day It starts at about 5:30am. My wife gets out of bed first, her iPhone flashlight leading her way down the hallway. I stretch and look out the window, a soft gray backdrop against the silhouettes of large oak and bay trunks. The sun won't rise for another hour. I lie awake for ten… Continue reading A new routine
A one-hour brain dump
It's almost 9:30pm on a Sunday night. I haven't posted here in about a month. Tonight, for the first time in a while, I feel like blogging. So I'm going to write for an hour, straight through with very minimal editing, and wrap up at about 10:30pm. It's now the end of September. The statewide… Continue reading A one-hour brain dump
My next 10 years
I started writing this post back in July 2019. Since 2020 is almost up, I figured now would be a good time to finish it. These past ten years have been all about myself: My education, my companies, my career, my health, and my family. The ten years before my 25th birthday I was more… Continue reading My next 10 years
The game I’m playing
Here's more mid-30s introspection about life and goals. These are things I've been thinking about as the people around me and I get older. What game am I playing? How do I know if I'm winning or at least doing above average? And why, for goodness sake, does this even matter? Like most people with… Continue reading The game I’m playing
Ode to this set of Cuisinart
To note the passage of time it’s easiest to point to a thing, like a grandfather clock or a door frame marked with heights and ages. Time moves. Things stay the same. Even though people are things, we move with time too. I look at a picture of myself from ten years ago and think,… Continue reading Ode to this set of Cuisinart
I don’t use shampoo
Many years ago, I stopped putting weird liquid soap in my hair every time I showered. The decision point happened amidst a profound and literal "shower thought." I picked up a bottle of shampoo, looked at it, and thought, “Why am I doing this, again?” And then I stopped doing it. That was a long… Continue reading I don’t use shampoo